Um…excuse me judges, the speech that I spent 10 years preparing is now gone. The neighbour’s dog seemed to know exactly where I hid it and had it for breakfast, and also I feel all stressed out because everyone who spoke before me did such a great job, so then I lost my confidence. So I cannot speak today. So thank you and good bye.
Good Morning Dr. Revathi, teachers, volunteers and my excuse-making friends. My name is Shyana Shaiskandan and I welcome you to the world of excuse-free living.
I chose this topic to bring awareness to this school that we are missing out on a bunch of great life experiences just because of our fears that cause us to make excuses.
We should get rid of these self-defeating habits, like making excuses, and I am sure that this will ring a bell for all of you.
Hmm… why do we make excuses? We make excuses because of our fear, or to make ourselves feel better. Sometimes, there is a reason to say “no”, but NEVER to make an excuse.
Another reason we make excuses is because of a bad experience in the past, then remembering that in the present and creating excuses.
Don’t you know how many valuable life experiences you are missing out on?
Think about this…everything that you experience is a chance to get you closer to God; by making an excuse you’re trying to run away from God. He never says, “I can’t bless you today because I am too busy.” God says that all things are possible and I bet he has never made an excuse before.
The habit of always making excuses will overpower you. You should control your excuses and make sure you never let them control you. You don’t want to know what will happen then.
Well, I have heard a lot of excuses in my life but the main ones are: I am too tired, it gives me allergies, it smells weird, and I don’t have time. Well my favourite one is “the dog ate my homework.”
I want to share with you a personal dream…. I want to be an astronaut. When my time comes to visit that moon, I can just chicken out because of the aliens out there or because I might get lost in space, or I will run out of air or, or…. See how your excuses can overpower you. Maybe I would still be alive but think what your excuses also bring you to… I would not feel accomplished, I would have no knowledge, and plus my dreams would be crushed. All this would happen just because of a silly excuse.
Whenever we think that our task is not what we want to do, look at it from a different perspective. You know, I can still be friends with aliens, I may not run out of air, and I will make sure I don’t get lost.
It never matters what the task is, rather say no and be honest than make an excuse. You should admit this to yourselves, and try to make your thoughts more positive. For an example, I just came back from school and am thinking, “I don’t have time for my homework”. Instead, I should think, “Well, I probably would have time for my homework if I stop watching 'iCarly' that much on TV.
We should always see our obstacle in a different way. When you make an excuse you are actually digging your own grave in the long run. Sometimes without even you noticing, we make excuses. All of us do, but we all need to stop doing that too. I know it may be hard to break an excuse-making habit just overnight, but you should do your best to try. By not making excuses, you will learn new things in life which will make you happy and you will pass this on to others. This way you are practicing all the five human values that hold our hearts close together. If you really want to do something, you’ll find a way. If you don’t, you will find an excuse. I believe that you can turn all your dreams into reality, because we all have a lot of potential. Thank you for listening and have an excuse-free day.